Message-ID: <56141asstr$1183122603@assm.asstr-mirror.org> X-Original-To: ckought69@hotmail.com Delivered-To: ckought69@hotmail.com X-Original-Message-ID: <BAY138-W299836470CEB1E2CF0979BF080@phx.gbl> From: Carol C <cobillard@hotmail.com> Importance: Normal X-OriginalArrivalTime: 29 Jun 2007 07:41:57.0727 (UTC) FILETIME=[F8AEBEF0:01C7BA20] X-ASSTR-Original-Date: Fri, 29 Jun 2007 03:41:57 -0400 Subject: {ASSM} Mrs. M, Boy B and Girl G come to stay at Mom's Friend's House (2005) Lines: 1333 Date: Fri, 29 Jun 2007 09:10:03 -0400 Path: assm.asstr-mirror.org!not-for-mail Approved: <assm@asstr-mirror.org> Newsgroups: alt.sex.stories.moderated,alt.sex.stories Followup-To: alt.sex.stories.d X-Archived-At: <URL:http://assm.asstr-mirror.org/Year2007/56141> X-Moderator-Contact: ASSTR ASSM moderation <story-ckought69@hotmail.com> X-Story-Submission: <ckought69@hotmail.com> X-Moderator-ID: RuiJorge, dennyw This essay relates the experience of a mother and her two kids who came to live with us without any background in free and communal sexual expression and who, being well past puberty, were at an age older than most kids were when introduced to our lifestyle. I think the story is worth telling because it provides some proof, I think, of the validity of my Mom's philosophy. Mom developed her views following years flirty fishing for the Children of God. She holds that sex is not meant to be a private affair and that even the smallest children can benefit from knowledge of its mechanics and of the process and meaning of arousal and that once they enter puberty every child should be free to explore his or her sexuality. What kids need to be taught is the science of tribology: an actual science that deals with . . . rubbing.Small children will, once they have satisfied their basic curiosity, have little or no interest in what older kids and adults are doing together by way of sex. But they should know that the rubbing together of post-pubescent penis and vagina is the quintessential renewable resource and creates fabulous feelings for both. That mere knowledge will go far to assure positive adjustment, emotional development, interpersonal relations and their own sexual satisfaction when they are ready, able and wishing to have sex. Like most (not all) of my earlier essays, the emphasis is on puberty and how children cope with its challenges. And what they do when they suddenly realize that their bodies -- penis, vagina -- have changed and are functional and fun-giving. Unlike in mainstream society, there is in ours no conception that showing off, looking at, mentioning or enjoying sex organs and sex could be embarrassing or perverted. It says something that 11-, 12- and 13-year olds take so readily to (especially) oral sex and find it so natural and fulfilling, particularly when performed among their friends. But in our case it was somewhat different: a girl always knew, even at the youngest age, that once she reached puberty it was proper and normal to want to take any cute boy's grown penis into her mouth and to make it hard and beautiful. Provided only that the boy desperately want to reciprocate, that he see her vagina as goreous and want to lick it and make it ready for his penis to penetrate and fulfill. Even "mainstream" pubescent and adolescent kids enjoy oral sex and brag about it, as we were reminded by a recent episode of "Judging Amy": http://tinyurl.com/6smq5http://judgingamy.tvfans.org/amy/episode/a604r.txt But they mostly have first to discover it at an age when they are already confused by hormonal and emotional changes, and this from equally confused peers. And, by and large, they don't attribute the mystical and religious significance to semen that we do. By the way, a French study showed that most kids are already watching porn movies by age 11. There is also the point that, in CoG thought, or at least in Mom's Friend's interpretation of it, puberty and arousal and orgasm and ejaculation have a religious meaning, and indeed the latter are sacraments. Children's sexual development should be noticed and mentioned, and boys and girls should be encouraged to be free and open with each other about their feelings, urges and needs. For any kid of, say, 12 or above, interest in oral sex is both normal and expected. Not only is it an essential part of foreplay and a fun and safe introduction to shared pleasure, but it is our faith that the semen a girl receives she takes as Holy Communion, whether orally or vaginally: genuinely the DNA, the Body and Blood, of all our predecessors: of Adam and of Jesus. This is not blasphemy but fact.(Among us, children from toddlerhood on were never shielded from the sight of adolescents and adults at sex. But neither were they allowed to take part. Lest new readers of these essays suppose there is any damage caused by early childhood familiarization with (not participation in -- that was the disagreement that caused Mom and Mom's Friend and many others to leave the Children of God) biology and romance and the physical aspects of sexual intercoure and oral lovemaking, I invite a review of the previous essays in this series, which contain many links to articles and court cases. When children are damaged, it is often -- just as with the "false memory syndrome" -- because adults have put that damage there. Whether or not those mendacious adults are themselves sexually inadequate, they have a wrong notion about children's innate curiosity and about the nature of puberty itself and the injury caused by suppressing the natural human urge for sexual release. Many mainstream kids seem either unaware of or embarrassed by their bodily changes. With us it is different, and kids are encouraged to take notice of, talk about -- and, when their sex organs have developed a bit, to satisfy -- their urges and needs. The sight of a pubescent penis erect always invites a smile and a comment from any girl and any adult. As I've repeatedly shown with citations and links to sociological and scientific studies, whether or not social engineers approve, oral sex is a fact of life among a substantial percentage young teens -- and for good reason. Both Moses David, when alive, and Mom's Friend certainly would approve: once a boy is producing semen he becomes a sort of missionary; once a girl's vagina has capacity, she becomes the vessel of Holy Communion. It makes sense that they should celebrate in some way their coming of age and that such celebration -- for example, a coming-out party with a ritualized defloration (and yes, the vagina is beautiful, like a flower, especially dilated and ready for pollination) is one way of countering apprehension and excluding rejection. If, as we think, the penis and vagina are the most beautiful human parts and the insertion of one into the other a sacred act, then it stands to reason that friends and family should share in the blessing and joy of a girl receiving her first penis.(Yet the law and religion have put their respective noses where they do not belong, in violation of biological facts and human nature. In many states an adolescent can be prosecuted for having sex with another adolescent of the same age or just a year younger: In re T.W., 685 N.E.2d 631 (Ill. App. 1997) http://www.geocities.com/cobil1/tw-ill.html (A scholarly legal article on this subject is at http://www.geocities.com/cobil1/kentucky.html My boyfriend is a lawyer and I've gotten him interested in this issue.) The mere fact that oral sex even between consenting adults could have for so long been a felony in so many states when in fact it is (1) emotionally and physically healthy and (2) the most effective route to orgasm for many or most girls and women says it all. In my research, I found that in the prosecution of Herbert Streicher (Harry Reems) over the "Deep Throat" movie, the prosecutor tried to inflame and agitate the jury by exclaiming how "disgusting" it was that Linda Lovelace (the late Linda Boreman) had semen dripping from her mouth. (The appeal on that, which they lost, is at U.S. v. Battista, 646 F.2d 237 (6th Cir. 1981) http://www.geocities.com/cobil1/battista.html but apparently Streicher himself got off; some others went to jail.) As you will find, Dear Reader, as you continue through this essay, semen is a sacred as well as a romantic Host, and the notion that semen spurting into a girl's mouth could be anything but beautiful and wondrous is a bizarre concoction by zealots of false religions and by perverted social engineers. To see semen spurt out of a penis or to see its traces thereafter is to share vicariously in others' joy and blessing. Of course the corollary of that is that masturbation is to be regretted: the very reason that girls and boys should mingle naked and should be encouraged to have sex right from puberty. This is how we interpret the Biblical command. "Go forth and multiply", after all, says nothing about "marriage"; and it's not marriage that is the sacrament but penis penetrating girl and releasing its semen. Note that even in mainstream life and law, marriage is validated only by consummation; before that it is voidable. Some might think our subculture insidious and subversive; we think not, and indeed there are tens of thousands in America and untold thousands elsewhere who raise children as we were raised. Sex is the most basic, primordial function and everyone of nubile age and body has a right to enjoy it, and to be seen to enjoy it. Now read on.)Mrs. M, like numerous single women with children, came to Mom's Friend's House by way of refuge; in this case after her husband had absconded overseas with whatever money the family had. Before her marriage she had been with the Children of God, flirty fishing with Mom's Friend or others of that circle. Most -- nearly all -- who came to stay for however long had children, and usually the kids were used to open sexuality or at least had seen their mothers having sex and knew something about penises and weren't turned off by the thought of touching one, etc. Mrs. M's were completely ignorant and naive: until the day her husband left, she had kept her past a secret. That in itself is far from unusual among ex-CoG members and their children, and perhaps reverting to the former sexual openness after the breakdown of a relationship isn't unusual either. But in this case the children were older: 12 (boy) and barely 15 (girl), and their introduction to a new, religious and intellectually philosophical, approach to post-puberty sexual relationships might not be easy or without grief. On the other hand, Mom's Friend's House may have been the only place she could go under the circumstances, an unemployed and homeless mother. And, if the only thing that had stopped her bringing up her kids the way she wanted was her husband's prudery, she was now free to try to undo the damage. Or get back at him, if that was her point of view. Anyway, we had been warned: we would need to be discreet, although we were scarcely likely to hide our beliefs and customs very much or for very long. Whereas those of us who had lived for months or years at Mom's Friend's House (and, as Mom and I did, other similar places) grew into sex quite like most mainstream kids, albeit at a younger age and more directly), adolescent visitors who'd never had sex before were likely to experience an abrupt transition. In this case, the first step was for the kids to get used to our easy nudity in the back yard and in the basement. But perhaps even more unsettling was for the children to come to terms with their mother being nude: it seems that neither had never seen an adult body naked, or perhaps more correctly an adult body intentionally naked. They were under no obligation to disrobe in front of us; we always let newcomers proceed at their own pace in nudity and in sex. Or not proceed, as the case may be. It was right away obvious to us that Boy B had zero sexual experience, either with others or alone. Yet he had the telltale dark fuzz on his upper lip that suggested puberty amd penis growth, and he was cute enough to attract the interest of several girls and the curiosity of all of us. Unfortunately he would persist in wearing baggy boxer swimming trunks that gave us no hint of what he had to offer. While -- as my houseboat story would tell you -- I like to think I was rather good at seducing virgin boys, by the time of his arrival I was much too old for that; and the presence of his mother and sister made girls his own age hesitant to speed things up. As for the boy, at first unsettled at seeing his mother for the first time shedding her inhibitions and sunning herself naked alongside Mom's Friend and Mom, he then started staring at the kids cavorting in and around the above-ground swimming pool. At first he tried to conceal the staring, but he soon lost control. His eyes would lock onto penises and breasts and vulvas and his mouth would gape open. It was disconcerting even for kids who were used to being watched to have a non-participant voyeur staring at them. His juvenile rudeness, if that's what it was, worked to our advantage since it would give us, in the fullness of time, an excuse to pounce on him.I suppose that there can't be any 12-year-old boy in America today -- or even then, a decade ago -- who hasn't at least heard of oral sex. For many or most it must be wishful thinking for years to come. Readers of earlier essays will be aware that I grew up in an environment where we were taught that sexual relations are a religious expression, that the exchange of sexual pleasure is communion with God, and that semen, indeed, is the medium of Holy Communion. In our community, girls and women have an absolute right to orgasm and have an equal, if not predominant, role in initiating and choreographing sex. A distinction is made between passion and romance as part of growing up, and commitment, which is for later, for having a family. Boys and girls should have sex early and often: from the moment of puberty in fact. Modesty, embarrassment and inhibition are unknown to us. Recognizing that half of all girls do not easily reach climax solely by means of vaginal sex, and applying our theology that arousal and excitement come from "getting right with God" and that semen is sacred, we were guided towards oral sex as foreplay. Nearly all of us would have seen our mothers and various adolescents enjoying oral and vaginal sex: our sexual education was visual and explicit. And, inevitably, when we were physically and emotionally able, we would feel the need, and just do it. Either in the celebratory "coming out party" I have described above and elsewhere, where a young girl ready to rid herself of virginity welcomes the penis of a chosen boy in a choreographed event attended by the two mothers and a few friends, or at one of our nude dance parties where a girl could have sex more anonymously, in company with others doing likewise in an atmosphere of rampant sexuality. Or, like me, when I was just 11, spontaneously with scarcely anybody noticing. In my case, it was sort of by accident, while horsing around with a boy and then tumbling to the floor and finding his penis inside me. Readers who have read my earlier essays will know all this. There is no doubt that the expectations of peers had effect upon the timing and circumstances of first sexual experience, but this is certainly true in the wider world as well and in my view is all to the good. Families who were uncomfortable with our way of life and thinking quickly departed, as did the socially and sexually inept. I obviously know the response of girls better than that of boys under such circumstances: as others of my cohort would start to develop physically, they would express interest in penises and comment more and more on the nakedness of the boys around us. And once sexually active, a girl would talk about cuddling a penis and the texture of semen and so on, and it would make others eager to grow up fast and share in the fun, the emotion and the chatter. With her mother no doubt sharing in that eagerness the only issue really would be the state of development of her body. And of course a pubescent boy, probably anyway older than her at an equal relative state of development, would scarcely be demanding yet of big boobs, full hips, lots of pubic hair and so on. "Halfway developed" seems enough: some pubic hair, little breasts, a little-big penis, just a bit of semen, and so on. "If a boy can masturbate and something comes out, then he is ready to have sex" was something I often heard said. Mom's Friend once told me "if a girl sees boys looking at her bosom and if she fantasizes a penis making love to her she is ready to play with one". Lots of mothers think that way, and older sisters and friends, too. It's often under peer pressure or parental guidance that a girl will come to play with a penis for the first time; there's something cute about her constant looking around for approval at each stage: a boy will be called over and either he'll be undressed already or she'll have to take down his pants. Then, as she starts to touch and fondle his penis it grows and gets stiff and beautiful; she will kiss it tenatively and, perhaps after further urging, put it in her mouth. And her eyes will dart around as her head bobs up and down and the boy approaches ejaculation. I've come to think that it's best for a girl, when she is making love to a penis for the first time, to continue orally to ejaculation and to experience the flow of semen into her mouth. She can take the penis into her vagina later. Most young boys are quite capable of a second erection after a few minutes, certainly after the time it takes for him to bring her to excitement and lubrication -- for her vagina to open up for him like a blossom, ready for his penis to slide in and dispose of her hymen.Boy B and Girl G, then, had to come to terms with us, and the way we lived. As I said, we went about involving them discreetly at first, which meant limiting nudity somewhat and more or less following the nudist code regarding intentional erections. But by the evening kids were making love in the shadows and on the next day in the sunlight, as usual. By that second day as I said, Boy B was becoming more blatant as a voyeur. Inevitably some of us would respond in a provocative way. Happy Girl and one of the boys were on the ground playing, and then they were at mutual oral sex, girl on top with vagina wide open and boy on bottom with his penis stiffly erect with Happy Girl's mouth over it, and just occasionally exposing its tip so that she could kiss it and show it off. Girl G had gone off to hide and Boy B was just standing there fixated. So frozen, indeed trembling, that Terrific Girl decided she could do with him what she wanted. She, nude of course, came up from behind and held him and pressed her body against him. He was embarrassed, but still frozen and unable to move, still staring at Happy Girl moving her head up and down, her lips pressed against the boy's penis in her mouth at the same time that the boy, lying beneath her had his face buried in her crotch and his tongue in her vagina. He repeatedly kissed her vagina in a sloppy sort of way and, every so often, rubbed his tongue in circular motions around her clitoris. His mouth gaping wide at the sight of what was going on, Boy B could do neither move nor speak even as Terrific Girl took down his swim trunks. She had to kneel down and physically lift up his feet one by one to get them off. At that point she turned her head upright and found herself looking directly at Boy B's penis, close up. She smiled broadly.I always thought it the cutest of sights to see a small boy with an oversized penis. Boy B's penis was very thick, surprisingly so for 12 years old, but not long. His balls were large, gorgeous. The result was that even when at rest, the boy's penis, lying on top of his scrotum, sort of pointed forward at you cutely, its big head very round and the slit at its end delightfully promising and kissable. He already had a goodly amount of pubic hair. The only surprise was that, with such a beautiful big penis, he had never, from what they told me, ever tried rubbing it or discovered how good that rubbing would make him feel. As I've written, Terrific Girl had a way with boys, even frightened, dubious boys like Boy B who, once Happy Girl and her partner of the day had finished and gone off to wash, was now the center of attention. Some girls approach a penis so dramatically, so sensuously, that their performance, from first caress and kiss until the spurting of semen, is a beautiful, delightful show. It's easy for onlookers to be aroused, and for them to start looking about for a partner. This penis had caught our attention, though, and wouldn't let our eyes wander. We wanted to see it come to life. We wanted to see Terrific Girl change this boy's life with his first girl-orgasm and his first girl-ejaculation. Didn't he know that with a penis like his he could have approached most any older girl months ago? Wasn't it surprising that no older boy or even girl (and under the circumstances of her past, his mother) had shown him how to masturbate? Anyway, here he was. And, for the moment, we had custody of his penis and we would show him how happy it could make him, and us.The sight of his semen would be a sign not just of his growing up, of his new life with girls and sex, but, hopefully, of his baptism to our faith. Predictably though, Boy B couldn't, or didn't, get an erection right away. Terrific Girl knelt in front of him, bouncing his penis on her tongue and trying to stimulate and excite it and him. Eventually he managed a half-erection and she proceeded to slide her mouth over it, circling its head with her tongue and the end of each outstroke. This went on for some time. Some boys, when they have their first sexual experience, ejaculate prematurely. Others can't, or can't easily, reach orgasm. Eventually Terrific Girl had Boy B sit in a chair, forward and with his knees well apart so that she had easy access to his penis. He looked, at first, apprehensive and puzzled, as if wondering what she planned for him.Terrific Girl proceeded to caress his balls, and then she licked his penis all around and repeatedly kissed its head and licked its slit, as if trying to gather any pre-cum onto her tongue. All the while she told him how lovely is was; he seemed not to have realized it was anything special. As his confidence built up, it got, in due course, reasonably stiff if not fully vertical. What I could then see, though, was that his penis had the most gorgeous shape. Its head was big and almost perfectly round, not cone-shaped but more like the ball of ice-cream on that other kind of cone, one that a girl loves to lick. I could see Terrific Girl was enjoying herself, proud to be seducing this new boy, proud to be in charge of his lovely penis. But still, she had to use imagination and technique to get and keep it reasonably hard and it must have taken 10 or 15 minutes before we detected jerky movement in his hips and smiles and drips of semen on her face. There was no bobbing up and down of her head -- the combination of thickness and relative shortness of penis made that impractical. Hers were, rather, mainly tongue and lip movements and kissing, and occasionally just running her tongue around the circumference of its crown. Boy B made neither movement nor sound. But soon there was semen all over Terrific Girl's mouth and drops of it on her breasts from when she ran out of breath to suck it in. She licked off what she could reach with her tongue; the rest she left where it was as a sort of trophy. She hugged and kissed her boy. He didn't shrink back from the hugs and kisses, even though Terrific Girl was getting semen on him too, and probably a bit even in his mouth. We then all told Boy B that he was expected to reciprocate and asked whether he wasn't excited about exploring his girl's vagina and making her happy, and being a lover. He couldn't answer; he was still in a daze and under Terrific Girl's control. We were raised to think of penis and vagina as the most beautiful, holy parts of the body. A penis becoming erect is a manifestation of the Holy Spirit. Almost as soon as I began my sex life -- I think it was even the same day that I took that boy by the hand into the basement of the first communal house we lived in and hesitatingly put his penis in my mouth and showed off to friends that I, too, could swallow semen -- it became a thing of pride to have a boy I was talking to develop an erection. And the erection had to be seen by others: for his and my mom to see it was an affirmation of my personality and femininity. For me to accept it and for them to see me kiss it was an affirmation of our sexuality and his masculinity. It's for this reason that we -- most of us, anyway -- think that oral sex in front of friends is a demonstration of beauty and a gift of arousal and joy and religious devotion. To make love to a penis and have it reward me with semen in a way that others can see and enjoy is a blessing to us and to them. There is an urgency to this, a need to feel God's grace in the form of sexual response and sexual release and Holy Communion; and a normality, too, because, stripped of inhibitions artificially instilled in us by self-rightious elders fearful of their own inadequacies, we achieve empowerment, fulfilment and joy.When kids came to us at puberty who had not been raised in as sexually open an environment or family as we were, they often didn't share that excitement and appreciation, at least not at first. Our first step had to be to banish their embarrassment at erection and to develop in them a sense of semen's special purpose beyond human conception. They might never free themselves of social convention to the degree we did, but almost all would become successful romantic partners. It was surprisingly easy to get a girl to take pleasure in boys' public erections; and also to get her excited at the sight and taste of seminal fluid leaking, by way of anticipation of her body, from an erect penis. Learning to handle large volumes of semen streaming rapidly into her mouth involves both technique and mental adaptation, though; the motivation to do it and the pleasure eventually derived come both from seeing the incredible enjoyment and supportive appreciation of onlookers. There is a holy aura about a girl receiving semen; while this is best learned in toddlerhood, it can be developed at any age when you are among friends and family who see public sex as a blessing, never an abasement.Suffice to say, a boy who has never heard of cunnilingus except to make fun or it or to have it described as sodomy and perversion, needs more than a little coaxing to get him to kiss a clitoris and to put his tongue in a vagina. But by now, Happy Girl's boy had another hard-on and the couple made a show of putting the hard penis into her vagina and of exhibiting its lovely in-and-out movements. Terrific Girl promised Boy B that if he made her vagina really wet and if he excited her and dilated her vagina, his penis would fit in easily, and he would become one of us, grown up. I have to say, though, that Boy B's demeanor evinced a certain amount of reluctance, even if he obeyed. He started out by playing with Terrific Girl's breasts, which she encouraged; and she stroked his penis and played with his balls before sitting in the chair and first having him stroke her vaginal area with his hand, then pushing his hand away and guiding his head into place. He hesitated, and then his tongue came out and he stroked the inside of her labia. Terrific Girl pulled her labia apart and pointed out where she wanted him to lick and kiss, and what else he should do with his tongue to get her excited. She wouldn't let him stop until she reached the cusp of orgasm; then she slid off the chair, lay down on the ground, pulled him on top and stuffed his penis inside her. From that point on Boy B's movements came naturally: his hips and rear moved up and down in a cadence -- not far, because his penis wasn't that long. We just enjoyed the sight of his penis going in and out of her vagina and the increasing confidence on his part that was reflected in his purposeful movement. At a certain point Terrific Girl decided she wanted to see his penis again, and she pushed Boy B's body upwards and raised her head and smiled.About the time that Boy B started licking Terrific Girl's vagina, somebody had gone to get Girl G and told her that her brother was making love and that she should watch. Apparently she didn't want to, or wasn't eager to, but soon there she was, in her bikini top and bottom, watching. One of our sexiest 16-year-old boys was dispatched to chaperone her. At first she pushed his hands away, but as her brother's penis picked up pace and moved in and out and as Boy B got the faraway look on his face of a boy chasing after a distant orgasm, she lost the ability and will to stop her escort from taking off her bikini top and playing with her breasts. Her boy's penis was fiercely erect and very beautiful and we couldn't understand why it didn't captivate her and why she didn't respond to it. But she wouldn't hold it, or touch it, or even look directly at it. The couple kissed, but then, as his penis repeatedly pressed against her body she started to cry and he moved a bit away and just tried to encourage and cheer her and, perhaps, groom her for sex on another day. At least we'd got her half-undressed: her breasts were small and round and bouncy, her nipples substantial, the way many boys like. I'd seen all this numerous times before, and I knew that in a day or two she'd have a penis inside her. She just had to get the measure of us, get to see how much fun we had and to realize -- as all of us had done -- that virginity is an obstacle not just to fun but to growth and to religious devotion. She needed to taste and feel and love semen and she needed to learn that she had a capacity for and a right to orgasm. And that she could excite boys and play with their penis and make them exceedingly happy and grateful. Finally -- because it did take quite some time -- we saw that Boy B had again ejaculated and he pulled away and lay down beside Terrific Girl, exhausted. She sat up and played languidly with his penis for a few seconds, then kissed him and went away. I wanted, at this point, to tell Girl G that if Terrific Girl could have taken her brother's very thick penis into her vagina so readily and without complaint, surely that lovely but average-sized penis of the boy she was with would be perfect for her first sex. But in the end I didn't say anything.The next day, Sunday, Boy B got up and, unsurprisingly, went looking for Terrific Girl. As it happened, she was with another boy, playing with that other boy's penis already. It was early in the day for sex, but she was making a point: she did not belong to Boy B and he would have to find his own partners in future. As it happens, that wasn't hard, at least for the first weeks and months. Eventually it's the boys with the nicest personalities who would get the most girls, the most sex. But a new boy, a pubescent boy, one with a penis as grand as Boy B's, would be busy as every girl would want to take turns having his penis in her mouth, in her vagina, tasting his semen, having him taste her, getting his approval. There were, as a rule, always far more girls actually living at Mom's Friend's House than boys. For one thing, Mom's Friend's principles centered on women's rights and their entitlement to sexual assertiveness and spiritual growth through sexual satisfaction. Our nude dances, for example, were entirely managed by girls, even down to pairing off couples, although we almost always accepted self-selected partners, or dates. The health issue made it important for us to have sex only within a closed circuit of kids between puberty and 18 years, something that was impossible to police at older ages. (Never mind what George and Laura Bush and their cretin friends say: abstention sucks, and limiting sex to a closed circuit of healthy friends is 100% as good as mongamy and abstention for the prevention of disease.) That meant that I, for example, had at any one time an immediate circle of a dozen boys around my age, with perhaps two dozen more as occasional visitors. For those exposed to a wider population, casual sex without condoms, including oral foreplay and playing with semen, bear risks once even a single partner is promiscuous in the general population. The title of that song "I've danced with a man, who's danced with a girl, who's danced with the Prince of Wales" sort of says it all. When school was out there would always be extra boys around. Those of us girls who organized the events -- mainly dances and yard parties -- had to manage the numbers, which we did by a rule of exception: boys, with very few exceptions, had to bring a girl unless they were known to us and were "special" in the sense of personality, character, penis, etc. In fact, often girls would nominate a boy; if it was up to the boy he would often have to bring a sister or cousin occasionally the "girl next door" -- usually someone he would not be having sex with. Cousins were OK for that (in other words, we never had any reason to discourage cousins from having sex. I published some time ago the account of two married cousins, though, who'd had to go to Florida to get married because not too many states allow it). Mom's Friend had strong feelings against incest, sex between persons related closer than cousins. (Her view was that a mother or father or sibling should take intellectual pleasure, not sexual pleasure, out of seeing a family member at sex.) I don't think it ever happened at our place. I've written a few times of the varying responses of brothers and sisters to seeing a sibling with penis in mouth, or even being deflowered. Those who'd grown up with common family nudity took this for granted, but not all the others did so. And outsiders often don't understand that there is no sexual implication to family nudity or family members having sex in each other's presence: it's just a matter of taking for granted the performance of a natural bodily function and appreciating that a loved one is giving and being given pleasure and joy, both physically and spiritually. In this context the latter is the more relevant of the two. I will come back later to Boy B's rapid adaptation to an active sex life. Girl G's was far more complicated, both because she was female and had been spoiled by social dictates -- the discriminatory and suppressive double standard that conventional religions and police controls impose. Ridding her of her unwanted virginity would be, in itself, less of a challenge than ridding her of false modesty and inhibition and making her understand the holistic value of sex. It isn't that girls aren't fixated by penises and don't mostly love sex, but that they have been taught, most of them, that taking a penis in mouth and, certainly, swallowing semen, is humiliating or at least naughty. And they have almost all absorbed the fiction of romance as permanent (or semi-permanent) relationship rather than as passion: a minuet leading up to the mutual kissing of genitals and sexual release in the presence of friends and family. A coalescing of joy and religious devotion: one's real partner in orgasm and ejaculation is God, and the boy is His proxy. That is the notion behind flirty fishing, the Children of God's version of evangelism. New religions are, almost by definition, experimentation and searches for truth. Old religions claim a monopoly on truth, something we never claimed for ourselves. Like the Mormons when they conveniently decided (the "Great Accommodation, Sept. 24,1890) that polygamy (polygyny) was no longer ordained by God just at the time that Utah sought admission to the Union and, at the time of Napoleon's Grand Sanhedrin their elders decided that Judaism was compatible with the First Consul's (essentially Christian) Civil Code, the Children of God regularly fine-tuned its catechism, mainly in the form of Mo Letters from Moses David. Mom and Mom's Friend had walked out of the CoG though, quite before it fell into apparent debauchery (discussed in the articles I posted to my web site at http://www.angelfire.com/co4/cobil ). What bothered them was David Berg's encouragement of cross-generational sex, to sex with and by pre-pubescent kids and the favoritism shown to and the coercive demands by church leaders. Mom argued that children and toddlers had the right to know what adults did, what sexual organs were for, but that puberty was the watershed. And that nothing harmful or painful or unpleasant or unwanted should be allowed. Sex was for physical and spiritual joy, not for pleasure at someone else's expense. The goal of life is lifelong happiness, and the aim of each individual is maximization of good works, etc. together with founding a family. Post-adolescence, monogamy should be encouraged; but pubescence and adolescence were for learning and fun and indiscriminate experimentation. As it happens, we had sexual taboos too: "normal" sex with us -- as, I think with most people, was limited to penis in mouth and penis in vagina. There are, of course, other possibilities but they were not part of our repertory. If somebody tried anything other than pairing off in couples and having oral and vaginal sex in parallel (i.e., two or more couples each engrossed in their own lovemaking even if in the same room), in a pattern of "monogamy for the day", I never saw it and I should have thought it gross. We weren't, obviously, having sex daily except maybe in summer and school vacations when it could be almost-daily. Our dance parties at Mom's Friend's House and at the homes of compatible, similarly-inclined communes, groups and families had assigned (or, as I said, sometimes self-selected) coupling. Otherwise, there was some of the same posturing and self-promotion by boys and girls as in the outside world. I can't say, of course, that there was no "posing" at the dance parties, because of course the contrary is true. Boys and girls from 13-18, and a few precocious 11- and 12-year olds were there nude, prancing and dancing, and the whole point was to parade their nudity, breasts, penises, vulvas. And semen and the pleasure it could bring. And to enjoy not just the music and the dance gyrations but the process of arousal and excitement and orgasm and joy. (And, yes, to think about changing partners for the next time, trying out a new body and, through a sort of competition that was not a competition, keeping partners on their toes, so to speak.) The striking thing was that because it was the joy and blessing that were paramount, physical beauty was less vital. If we accept that penis in mouth and vagina and tongue in vagina are the "meaning of life" and the ultimate in beauty and sense and sensuousness, then a Miss America Pageant cannot be our model. Neither can any porn film. Vicarious pleasure is there, for sure; but at these parties the means are the end: the ambiance, the sex, and -- the ejaculation. I got Mom's Friend to agree with me that girls and boys should be encouraged to attend such parties regardless of age just the minute they were seen to have sexual capacity. It gave a sence of community and a sense of continuity; and none could go home without having absorbed our sense of the sacred in sex.Sacred it was: the nudity and the orgasm. But it was also fun. The only difference between us and ordinary teens is that we expect that most casual encounters will end with girl's climax and boy's ejaculation. Our aim with somebody new was to entice and arouse and have fun in a way that satisfied biblical commandments and natural law. Our encounters, though, were not frivolous. As I've written, girls could be explicit and we certainly were just as eager for casual sex as any boy. But, unsurprisingly, our attitudes changed with age: while kids of different ages can certainly have great orgasms with older or younger partners, once you attribute a religious purpose to sex personality and character and compatibility take on even more importance than otherwise, and Mom's Friend's Rule (no more than 15% difference in age) made sense. Anyway, for 12 or 13 or 14-year-olds, the non-issue of "virginity" was often the issue. I've told how I used to love seducing pubescent boys: well, a lot of girls as well as many boys take special pleasure in being the "first partner" of a pubescent or adolescent teen. In fact, when I saw Boy B's penis for the first time I had to think back to a time years before when I seduced an 11- or 12-year-old boy and while his penis was in my mouth his father walked in on us. The upshot of it was -- and this says more about the father than the boy -- that I wound seeing the boy on a regular basis, about once a month, for the next year, enjoying his penis and watching it grow, and sort of measuring that growth over time with my mouth. The payback was that he had to bring me to orgasm too, plus his father had to drive us over to a film or a show. I was always a bit unnerved though because his father wanted to watch what I did to his son's penis each time, and what the son did to my vagina. This in itself wouldn't have bothered me if it hadn't been for his (the father's) obvious erections. Eventually I put an end to relationship, or project, having accomplished my goal of seeing a boy through the stages of his puberty.Seducing virgins, boys or girls, can be a fetish, or a matter of innocent evangelism -- that "flirty fishing". The borderline is indistinct because it depends on attitude, whether the initiator is motivated by his (or her) pleasure or by the pleasure and welfare of the virginal partner. Boys who were chosen by girls' mothers as partners for their daughters' deflorations (not all that common, but there must have been a couple of those a year) might themselves be virgins and they might fumble a bit. But their personality, as well as the state and impressiveness (not necessarily size because a too-big penis can hurt, but beauty and what I would call "kissabiity") of their penis, was important. And the kind of motivation and self-confidence that made a boy "reliable" for a defloration party were the same for any girl's first date. I guess the right term is "adaptability". To see the countenance of a mother as she would watch her boy's penis sliding a girl's vagina on such an occasion -- and again, as one sensed his ejaculation into her -- had to reaffirm the commitment of any of us to our way of life. It was the same for the mother of the girl. One had a real sense of the spiritual on such an occasion; the anticipation and then the ecstasy of the boy and the girl -- for with counseling beforehand and oral foreplay right before the penis always penetrated smoothly and firmly and, if not painlessly then happily -- testified to the event's holiness, its blessing. As for the boy: there are boys you meet, and while your first interest is his face, he exudes some mystical aura that right away your eyes move to his penis and you want to cuddle it and take it really close, put it in your mouth. And if the penis is really round and really stiff and really lovely, you want right away to have it. And for him kiss your vagina, and so on. It was such a boy who would be chosen by the girl and her mother; it would be his penis that we would see and love and -- we girls at least -- want to play with ourselves in future days.This was the kind of boy we called on for Girl G. His body would impress her, but he wouldn't force himself on her or try to rush things. He would "love bomb" her for as long as it took for her to take off her bikini bottoms on her own, for her to pay attention to his penis. If he and we were lucky, just when Girl G would be most vulnerable his penis would produce some seminal fluid at its tip. I never met a girl who did not get excited by her boy being excited: every girl, I think, looks for and wants to take on finger and tongue that drop of pre-cum that confirms that her boy desperately needs her. I think even girls who have never before touched a penis must realize how precious it is.Once Girl G had gone topless, of course, there was no going back. Swimming, volleyball, board games, even impromptu dancing in the garden and just chatting brought her more closely into our circle of friends. And always her beau shadowed her, keeping up witty conversation. And there in the background, mixing with a younger crowd and learning all about the permutations and possibilities of sex, and from time to time ejaculating into some girl's mouth or vagina with no sense of shame or privacy, was 12-year-old Boy B, her brother with the lovely penis that even Girl G had to, and did, admire. Through all this, there are ways of "accidental" touching, and of a boy showing off his penis, and of a girl becoming less and less apprehensive. As other girls could be seen assertive, encouraging boys to fondle their breasts, to caress their clitoris and, as girls would teasingly play with the penis of today's boy and admire his erection, but put off penetration for hours, Girl G warmed to the notion of sex. I think there was some talk about pre-cum when some girl saw it on the penis of her date. Girl G copied another, and put finger to penis tip and then finger to tongue. That, I guess, was the signal. The crowd expected now to see finality; the boy knew how far he was allowed to go and he embraced the girl: they kissed and then he spent forever kissing her breasts, and his fingers moved to her vagina. I think it was one of the other girls who said something about a "hindrance" and pulled off Girl G's bikini bottoms. That was the signal for the boy to move his mouth to her vagina. The girl freely moved her legs apart: she had given permission. (I think she was ready anyway and that her reluctance was staged pretense, but that's just the opinion of one girl who hasn't known very many 15-year-old virgins. I met a 16-year-old boy virgin once, and I promptly seduced him, but he was a special case: he hadn't even started puberty until he was 15.) His tongue went in and around and the sensation was obviously fantastic and life changing for her. She didn't resist when he moved his right leg over her body and now his penis was stiff and bobbing about over her mouth and she really had no choice but to kiss it and take it inside. Now the boy was caressing her clitoris with his tongue and at the same rhythm lifting and lowering his hindquarters, finding pleasure for his penis in her mouth. Older Girl whispered in her ear to close her lips more tightly on the penis, to massage it with her tongue; Girl G tried to obey. She came first, and her shriek disrupted her boy's march to orgasm. He went on kissing her vagina and she went back to work. After a few minutes her clitoris had obviously become over-sensitive, and she couldn't go on. Her boy moved around and smiled, got on top of her and his penis was inside her. There was another shriek of sorts, and then some whimpering and tears. Contraception? She would start taking pills today, but it would be over a month before she was "safe" for vaginal sex. There was a call for a towel, Boy B rushed over with a wet washcloth. The boy wiped off his penis and asked, most desperately, for Girl G to take it back into her mouth. He stood in front of her; she kneeled and put her mouth over his penis, tentatively at first, perhaps worried what she'd do when semen spurted into her mouth. (Although I more or less had to figure it all out by myself, in Mom's Friend's House sex education was more organized and explicit. By the time a girl was ready for sex her attention would have been drawn to the miracle of ejaculation and if only out of curiosity and questioning she would have learned the importance of continuous lingual contact and friction with the head of a boy's penis as his ejaculation proceeds. She will also know what to do with the semen as it spurts out and as it accumulates in her mouth. Of course Girl G, being new, didn't have that advantage.) Girl G had seen that among us spitting was not an option. It couldn't have been more than ten strokes before we saw semen streaming down her boy's penis and glistening on his balls. She couldn't respond to the waves of liquid fast enough, but it seemed to me she swallowed some. And her boy lay her back down on the ground and kissed her. And then he wiped the semen off it and put his penis back inside her vagina for a coup de grace. When his penis came out it was coated with bloody mucus. At almost all our planned deflorations, a girl's mother starts her on a cycle of pills a month or two beforehand. There are accidents, and people have spoken of abortions in the past, but I can't cite any particular case of one. (Moses David did not believe in abortion or, for that matter, contraception, and in his community there were many "Jesus children". Of which, as I've said, I am one.)There is an important point to be made parenthetically here. For those of us who grow up appreciating nudity and genital beauty, the penis and its beauty have importance and deserve attention for their own sake and for what they mean to the girl as much as for their quality as instruments of making the boy happy. The boy is in our circle of friends, but we do not have sex with him to catch and hold him but just to enjoy the blessing and pleasure of his penis. This is why it's so important for a girl to be able to see the gorgeous penis as it enters her vagina at the time of her defloration, and why she and the boy should be positioned to make that possible. And it's also why she should take the penis into her mouth first, whether or not the boy has already achieved an erection. (The point is that, with us at least, the girl is to be in control. The boy presents himself to the girl; he is standing and she is seated. This may be the first time she has been this close to a penis; she will play with it and make it stiff and kiss it and enjoy it. When she is ready, she will have the boy kiss her vagina and make her ready for penetration. I have described this before, and explained how this is part of our belief and how it is a right and a rite of feminism. And how this should never be done in secrecy and in shame but always in celebration, with friends and mothers there to share vicariously in the kids' ecstasy and in their Holy Communion as semen passes from boy to girl. It's one of the tragedies of mainstream life that a girl cannot share the joy, pleasure and beauty of her first contact with a penis, her first experience of having it get big and stiff just for her, her first reception of its lovely and sacred semen.) It's amazing and delightful to see the wonderment in a girl's eyes as she grasps a penis for the first time, brings it to her lips, makes it big, shows her apprehension over what will happen, what she will do, when semen starts to spurt out of it. (It's just as cute to see a virgin boy urged on, of course, and that's true whether his penis is statuesque or early in its growth. Above all is the satisfaction of watching the boy's demeanor turn from apprehension to confidence and joy as he ejaculates for the first time into a girl and sees his own semen leak from her mouth, from her vagina. Especially with the nodding approval and vicarous pleasure of his mother, and with other girls there who make it clear that they, too, will be wanting to share his penis and his orgasm. From now on, an erection in public would be only a source of pride and, with luck, seduction for the boy -- never a source of embarrassment or cause for covering himself up. With luck, from that moment on the boy would be conscious of his sexuality and instinctively want to show off his penis to the girls, for example by sitting forward in a chair, his knees wide apart.) Girl G did not have that background, hadn't seen other girls experiencing that rite of passage, and hence it was not natural to her -- yet, or perhaps ever -- to have the urgent need to embrace the penis of her partner without prompting, and then to watch it entering her vagina in her first sexual experience. That said, Girl G was now among us and one of us. Her boy continued to shadow her until evening, and stayed the night with her. Then he disappeared to go to his summer job. She was now in play. One could see that she was waiting for her boy to come back, but he didn't and he wouldn't until the next weekend. By that time she'd fallen for another boy, and then another. She was in play, and enjoying her role: choosing her penis -- all pink and circumcised and beautiful and sexy. A few times she had vaginal sex with a condom, but our ethic called for semen as Holy Communion; after the second time with a condom she was introduced to contraceptive foam. But, like Terrific Girl, she seemed happiest with oral sex and came to love showing off her vagina, high in the air while she took a boy's penis in her mouth and he licked at her from below and sucked at her vagina and put his tongue inside, pink against pink. She would remind us how beautiful, lovely, passionate and sensuous and pleasurable it was. Sex with friends about is sex to arouse and to be copied. To have among us an active, eager girl who is excited about her new journey was delightful. Frankly, we rarely saw a 15-year-old virgin: most girls began sex by 13. (Indeed, the article I have linked to above notes that the average age of first sex for boys today is under 14, and for girls 151/2.) Many were at oral sex almost as soon as they had discernable breasts and a bit of pubic hair. (The whole point for us was to recognize that our bodies were changing, and while we were going through puberty and our genitals were growing we should be using them and growing into sex.) And while Boy B had a lovely, mature penis, any boy among us who had a half-grown penis and a bit of pubic hair was likely to be sexually active. I don't know if it was that their mothers pushed them forward, although it might have been: I've written about the mystical relationship between mothers and their boys' penises. In the outside world, mothers tend to be protective of their girls' virginity. With us it was the reverse: a mother would want her girl to have a baptism of semen as soon as she was capable, and to learn to assert herself, to arouse boys at the mere sight of her nudity. Breasts are, as we all know, a mysterious weapon. And for a girl to grasp a penis and show off what she can do, and to make it ejaculate for her and to enjoy its semen; and for her to make her boy want to bring her to climax with his mouth and not only to accept but to love mucus and blood and to put up with the complaints and demands and eccentricities that girls, especially assertive ones, have, that was the essence of our growing up. And that was now Girl G's life. Mrs. M did not watch her daughter's defloration. And while a 12-year-old boy would often rush to show off to his mom his first prospective partner and want her to see his erection and his ejaculation and such semen as he could produce cascade into or onto her, a 15-year-old girl was beyond that and into the age of discretion. She could be seen from a distance, she was neither falsely shy nor falsely modest. She would develop a style for herself, and I often saw her seated on the floor with her legs crossed, her vagina moistened and her labia showing as if challenging boys to proposition her. Like most of us, she loved to be surrounded by boys with erections. I think her mom took some satisfaction in how quickly she had learned to make love to a penis and to enjoy semen, how she had come to terms with our practices if not wholly appreciating our beliefs. Like the rest of us, she learned how to let just enough semen spill out of her mouth for orgasm to be seen to be done and for the semen to be seen to have been swallowed, not "spilt on the ground", as Onan was cursed for doing. And, indeed, her mother could show her that sex is ageless: you never outgrow your need for sex. (Although, to be honest, frequency of sex does diminish for most people, most women anyway, with age. This is, of course, one more argument for encouraging kids to begin sex just as soon as they have the capacity to do so.)The dispatching of Girl G's hymen although it was impressive and fun did not have the drama or the classic beauty of the 13-year-old Big Breasted Girl's first sex at the dance party: her boy's gorgeous stiff penis hovering over her vagina for long seconds and then suddenly moving down to penetrate it while we looked on, ourselves still in the glow of orgasm. Or the more choreographed coming out parties where a girl would be seated on the bed and her boy would approach her and she would embrace his penis and he would kiss her vagina and then, when she was ready we would typically help her lift her legs up and away and the boy would direct his penis into her gaping vagina, arousing us in the process. Sex is always lovely, even when it's different it's the same. The more visible the better. Virginity is burdensome; losing it is a rite of passage for pubescent and adolescent girls. There is no doubt that having sex for the first time with friends around to support her is best for a girl. It's also important for her to play with the penis first and afterwards, because she will always want to remember it. The best orgasm is always the one you are having, or just had. But the best penis seems always to be the first one you played with and took in your mouth and your vagina, and which gave you your first taste of semen. Even if you had to taste it by putting your finger into your vagina; or perhaps by squeezing the last drops out of the penis with your lips, milking it of its essence. I always thought that before taking her first penis into her mouth a girl should study the countenance of an older girl at the moment semen is streaming into her mouth: she will see, among us at least, the faraway look of a girl receiving Holy Communion. And so it is. At the very least a girl will, or should, have an air of studied commitment and of anticipation of her own orgasm. Or the remembrance and tingling of a climax and godly vaginal communion just enjoyed.We were, as I said, cautioned not to have sex with anyone who not within 15% of our own age. I suspect there was a legal basis to that: nobody, or almost nobody, is every charged with underage sex for having consorted with someone his or her own age. Boy B, though, had this magnificent penis. As I said, to see a young and small boy with an oversized penis is cute and joyous and any girl or women must feel the urge to give him an orgasm, to fondle his penis and testicles and to make him happy. Its perfect, round head was, and I'm sure still is, a joy to play with and kiss. (I had a photo once of such a glorious huge penis with a girlfriend of mine kissing its tip and sucking the semen out of it, but I seem to have lost it.) The couple of times I held Boy B's penis I just loved to run my tongue forever up and down along the slit trying to elicit some seminal fluid before putting just the head, up to the crown, in my mouth and running tongue and lips over it until semen would stream out. There was a certain naughtiness in doing the forbidden, especially, or even, when there were special reasons for the violation being winked at. I hae to say that by the time I got to him, Boy B's penis had been cuddled by so many girls, younger and older, that he himself had developed sophisticated technique. Even Mom (whom I'd contrived to be near when I made my move on it) commented to me how impressive his thick penis was even when at rest, and how much more so when stiff and glistening with semen. To make him come, I had used the technique of running my tongue around and around its head, so when he ejaculated his semen bounced against my lips and tongue and much of it dripped back onto his penis and balls. Actually I think that for the boy, there is somewhat more pleasure for the boy when the head of the penis actually enters your mouth fully and presses against the inside of your mouth and your tongue; but given that he had a full orgasm and ejaculation, he couldn't complain. And it was far more enjoyable I think for onlookers first because they could see all the semen coming out, and then me licking it up. As I've said, impressive penis size never was important to me because (1) I so love having a penis in my mouth and kissing it all over, and a too-big penis is unwieldy (as well as sometimes painful in my vagina) and (2) boys with huge penises, at least boys of 16 or above, tend to be supremely arrogant and I hate arrogance above all things. (By the way, or an interesting (if otherwise irrelevant to this discussion) account of remedial penis surgery, see a story in the Sunday Telegraph (UK) of April 10, 2005: http://www.angelfire.com/co4/cobil/russurg.html .So, Boy B's life was changed forever. I hope he was trained not to become arrogant, and during the years I knew him -- age 12 to about 14 -- he certainly was not. Like all boys, his penis, and making love to a girl, was never far from his thoughts, though. I would see him nonchalantly fondling himself, but then that's what nude kids, both girls and boys, tend to do when there's no social rule to stop them: it's a sort of signal of readiness, of availability. And since boys with us lost their monopoly of initiative, this would give a girl an opening to take charge of his penis. Or if the boy was clothed, to undress him. I've written how girls often brought a "present" over to another, visiting, girl. It was lovely to see Boy B presented as a present and have some girl of 12 or 13, or even once or twice of 11, pull down his pants to reveal that lovely penis, which would invariably start rising as if on command. The protocol called for the girl to play with the penis and the boy to undress the girl; of course their arms would conflict. A smart girl would just put the penis in her mouth and leave her arms loose while the boy fussed with her top. Of course she'd have to let go of the penis for her top to come over her head, though. Given the curious beauty of Boy B's penis, and given that not all girls are like me and many do want to have a really big penis to play with, the boy's size and age often seemed to be ignored. The problem with that was that one tended to forget he was a little boy and to think of him as the bearer of that grand penis, and as a semen donor. Even Mom's Friend couldn't do or say anything to suppress the want, or to keep us from allowing ourselves to be seduced by this funny, happy boy with the brilliant penis that always seemed to be erect. Admittedly, once or twice with that penis would be enough for most girls of 14 or above. One depends for sexual enjoyment on conversation as well as orgasm: I've always wondered how men could appreciate a mail-order bride or a war bride from a country with a strange language they can never hope to master. Perhaps the difference is that we were intellectually and philosophically sexy and sensitized: almost all of us would go to college; sociologists and advertisers speak of social classes in terms of discrimination and wealth: A (upper middle class), B (middle class), C1 (lower middle), C2 (skilled working), D (working), E (lowest level of subsistence). Despite Mom's Friend's status as a trust fund brat (her parents had set up a discretionary, spendthrift trust for her when she ran off with the CoG because they knew that cults drain all the assets from their members. And indeed, scientology, the Children of God, and all the others did and do exactly that. So, when she left, her trustees bought her a house and gave her an annuity to raise Older Girl on. And of course Terrific Girl's dad paid his share, and many of the lodgers paid rent. So, we were, I think classed as "professional" even though my own Mom never earned much more than minimum wage and her only "savings" are the life insurance policy that Mom's Friend made her buy to pay for my education. But which she still has since I went to college on the cheap. As it happens, as close readers of these essays will remember, I went two years to community college and the last two to state university and had a scholarship; and Mom is now uninsurable since she's got a wasting disease. (Mom keeps telling me that the policy will now be my inheritance. It makes me sad; and anyway my inheritance is (1) my education and (2) the experiences she let me have.) Anyway, to return to the subject, without Mom's Friend's Help, we wouldn't be Class B. But we're educated and intellectual, and I think that, and sex, are the most important things in life. And we lived frugally, which is no shame: not to smoke, not to drink much, not to waste money at the mall. The best things in life are free, etc. Well, sex can be: it's only greed and pride and some of those other deadly sins that make sex, or getting any, expensive. The most memorable occasions for interplay with Boy B and Girl G were at the nude dances. They moved in different circles, of course: a 15-year-old girl and her friends are likely to have little in common with 12 to 14-year-old boys. But girls can be catty, and an older sister will always be critical of any girl her brother is making love to: her hair isn't right, her breasts are too saggy, she has too much or too little pubic hair. And -- for the sisters among us -- more to the point: she isn't solicitous enough of his penis, closes her eyes too much, doesn't look happy enough when his semen is in her mouth, etc., etc. Girl G, like most sisters, might find her eyes wandering from her own boy's penis, if she had it in her mouth, to her brother's. This was a pity because her style was really good and we liked to watch how, when she brought a penis to ejaculation in her mouth, depending on its viscosity she would either gather the semen on the head of the penis for us to see, or let it trickle down the sides of the penis. In either case she would recapture most with her tongue and swallow it sensuously. I don't think a boy being fellated likes the girl to be paying attention to some other boy, even if it's her brother. Especially if the other boy has such a thick penis and is very popular, and even though with incest out of the question there is no competition involved. A boy is all the more likely to get upset if his girl loses her cadence and delays his ejaculation, or lets his penis get soft.Older Girl had in her early teens been one of the great show-offs kissing and licking penises and I guess she thought herself an expert critic, because when she got too old to attend our dances she would sometimes come by anyway and wander about the floor making comments. Especially when she saw girls and boys engaging in oral sex with their eyes closed; or boys not doing what she considered a proper job of oral sex. On one occasion Older Girl told Girl G that she'd be best off sticking with mutual oral sex, and that because she was slender and her rear end not too big and so never an embarrassment to have high in the air, she should always be doing that when our dancing tapered off and our sex started. Girl G started insisting on doing it regularly from then on. Soixante-neuf takes a lot of concentration. Unless you get selfish and are so immersed in your own pleasure that you stop moving your lips and tongue with commitment both partners are guaranteed a good time, and bystanders too. If the whole point of a dance is to see and be seen, either oral sex or Mom's favorite position, with the legs up high and the vagina visible from all angles so the entry and exit of the penis is fully visible, are the most exciting and attention-getting positions. Some couples liked to do oral sex early in the evening and then dance for a few hours, and then have vaginal sex. Really there is nothing more delightful than four hours or more of embracing a nice body and feeling a penis inside and outside of you, and admiring and being admired by others. And, of course, having multiple orgasms over several hours. Any teenager should be capable of and eager for that. And you can see the anticipation on the faces and in the bodies of kids dancing and chatting. Everyone would take for granted that there would be sex; which is why that story of the Big Breasted Girl was so special: it wasn't entirely clear that she knew, or planned, to get rid of her virginity then, and she was watching the rest of us with her boy standing next to her with his erection. And then the two of them, spontaneously, made the move that I've described: it was so natural and so lovely. The point of this essay has been to describe how both one family as a unit and two adolescent kids from that family responded to a change in lifestyle and life philosophy, accommodating our sexual openness. In my opinion the greatest success of their coming to stay was that after a couple of weeks Boy B, Girl G and Mrs. M. became so open and uninhibited in each other's presence both in terms of making love and in talking about it or in Boy B's case, just having an erection. At a certain point at puberty or shortly afterwards, kids are, or should be, drawn to feel the potential for arousal, the tingling in the groin, at the sight of a potential sex partner. Boys, of course, feel this more readily and more often; girls, if they ignore the impulse -- as manifestly most can, more easily than boys -- are foregoing a blessing as well as great delight. The tingle in one's groin is really a message from what Thomas Jefferson liked to call "Nature's God". There is no reason to hide it, and the sex that results, from family and friends. The false logic of mainstream religions and of society, drawing from those religions, is that there must be a direct application to adolescents of the commitment and exclusivity expected of married persons. The teen years are for learning, for fun, for sport. And for experimenting with sex, to learn to discriminate. I've several times written how knowledge about sex and about one's own sexual needs makes choosing a life partner far more rational, and -- anecdotally anyway -- seems to reduce substantially the rate of marriage failure later on. Among other things, one becomes more rational and realistic about bodily beauty when the truth is not always cosseted, corseted and covered up. And because it is the penis and the vagina that are, indeed so beautiful and so complementary -- and magnificently so at penetration -- bumps and wrinkles elsewhere on the body lose importance for us. A girl with a mouthful of semen exudes sensuousness even without make-up. A boy with his tongue -- or his penis -- in a girl's vagina is not only expressing the meaning of life but is sharing his godliness in holy coitus: it is not matrimony which is the sacrament, it is the exchange of bodily fluids for which no special dispensation or solemnization is relevant or needed or wanted. I think that all of this came together for Boy B and Girl G the first time they saw Mrs. M with a penis in her mouth. As I said, sex is ageless and families should have no secrets and no need for privacy. Sexuality and sex and exchange of sex fluids are bodily functions; they are only "shocking" to the uninitiated because of some social diktat. I think Mom's Friend told Mrs. M that she could confirm the children in their way of life by sharing it, and so Mom's Friend invited over an acquaintance of Terrific Girl's dad, a guy who shared our background and our beliefs, and who (being a weekend dad or maybe having joint custody) came over with his own daughter the day of a dance party. We could see that the man's relationship with his daughter was very frank. In fact the girl told one of my friends that she'd always been fascinated by her dad's penis and that well before she started puberty he'd discussed everything with her and started bringing her around regularly to Mom's Friend's House. Hers was the one and only defloration party I know about where the girl's father and not her mother was present to celebrate penis penetrating hymen. I wasn't invited, but I heard it went well even though both she and the boy were very young. Being that young -- 11 or 12 -- and being sexually active could be hard at Mom's Friend's House because there wouldn't be a lot of partners available of that age, and it really isn't appropriate for an 11-year-old to be having sex with a kid two years older. The way the 15% rule worked, a kid of 132 months (11 years) could have sex with one of 152 months (121/2 years). While we were arranging things for the party in the basement, the adults were out in the backyard in regulation uniform, i.e., undressed, seated in lawn chairs and chaise longues. As I heard the story, after an hour of conversation and a couple of drinks the acquaintance started talking about his own nude dancing 20 years before, and, with music playing in the background, proposed that they act out a round of dancing. They started kissing more than dancing, and his penis was erect, and he changed from kissing her lips to kissing Mrs. M's vagina. By this time somebody contrived to get Boy B and Girl G over to ask their mother a question, but they couldn't very well ask it just then because they'd moved around and she had her man's penis in her mouth and wasn't paying her kids any mind. The lesson they got was that oral sex is not just child's play. And, having seen their mom reverted to her pre-marriage state, before they were born, free again and with a smile on her face and semen dripping from the corner of her mouth, they had something special in common, something cross-generational, something eternal. And also reinforced was the important lesson that love is for families: it is passion and romance that are for couples with capacity to share a penis and share orgasm and share semen. (I will not address, beyond stating it, the conundrum that while one is admonished to use a condom for casual sex, really nobody is willing to use a condom for oral sex. So there are risks.) When one sees semen as a gift from God and as bearer of DNA as far back as Adam and as proof of passion and joy one easily gives the lie to those who would see mockery or humiliation in girls who give and receive pleasure that way. To me, for a boy to admire my physical attributes and to be aroused is to make me, in a sense a clergywoman. His erection confirms my existence and offers me passion. But, as we taught those two kids, the boy has to assure the girl, 100% of the time, her right to pursue an orgasm. That responsibility is impossible to escape when the kids are not having sex in secret, but have friends about who want to see and enjoy the sight, sound, and aroma of climax, orgasm and ejaculation. When a girl takes a semen-coated penis from her mouth, shows it off, and then sucks the semen back into her mouth to swallow she has paid the ultimate compliment to her friends, her lover and herself. Within a month Girl G was doing this with panache: I think having seen her mother doing likewise attested to how normal it is. At dance parties we always liked to invite, to meet new friends. Friends of friends, mainly: they had to be properly introduced. The whole point of mixers like that is to expand a bit our closed, safe universe of partners. One understands that absolutely, positively, you are allowed to have unprotected sex only within our group of families and communes. That, for us, is chastity. I was not on the guest committee then. Terrific Girl and a couple of others worked out who would dance with whom. As I've said, sometimes guests would exchange or shuffle partners, but once a pair had started to make love they were bound to each other for the evening. On very rare occasion, once or twice that I can remember, a girl (usually) would get mad and storm off home. The one time I had any responsibility for guests I was able to phone around and find a 15-year-old girl who had tried too late to sign up, and Mom's Friend drove over to get her. That was unusual, too. Mostly parents brought their kids, except for kids over 16 who had driver's licenses. We didn't want any kid having sex at our place without parental approval, and we wanted to assure ourselves that the parents were genuinely committed on a religious or philosophical basis to principles of liberal sexuality, including freedom to have sex from puberty on. We didn't want some mother trying to claim, later on, that she "hadn't known" that her son or daughter was sexually active. It may have been a decade ago, but we were attuned to the problem that Michael Jackson is facing now: that some mother would send a kid over knowing full well that we were holding a sex party, then feign horror that the kid had sex and accuse us of having corrupted him or her. And sue.We had different rules and customs over the years. I liked best when the assigned couple undressed each other and got to touch the sex parts of their partner right away. After pulling down my boy's underpants I would always play with his penis for a minute or two, just by way of teasing him. Other girls would do likewise. Or maybe, when her boy took off her panties, she would show off her the inside of her labia, promising him later pleasure or perhaps reminding him of where his tongue should be. Some girls worried about periods and sex; I didn't, and I didn't think any boy who was put off by blood was worth a second glance. If there was a virgin -- like the Big Breasted Girl -- she was always likely to be given pride of place. Not because virginity was good, but because having an intact hymen was something of an embarrassment to us and we wanted to see her get rid of it and have fun. As I said, there were certain boys who would do anything to have the opportunity to deflower a girl -- which is why Mom's Friend preferred to offer these girls a coming-out party. But a lot of girls, perhaps most, didn't want that. At a party they thought they could get lost in the crowd, while still having community support. In real life, though, everybody would stop and watch, the way we all did the Big Breasted Girl. Since it took a while for a boy, kissing and sucking at a vagina, to make the girl really excited and desperate for the penis -- and to banish any fears she might have of pain and make her vagina so dilated and moist that even a big penis would slide in quickly and easily -- by the time a new girl was ready for her penis everybody would be watching. No girl ever changed her mind at that point. Probably, as with the coming-out party, she would get on one of the sofas, friends would offer to hold her legs, and the boy would point his penis towards her vagina, look for a nod or signal or a word from one of the friends, and his penis would slide firmly all the way in, preferably with the target girl watching closely. I can't remember any hymens that needed a second thrust to get broken, but I have heard such stories. For the most part, girls were totally committed and eager, even if they'd never laid hand on a penis before. And almost all would have stayed with us for a while beforehand and seen sex close up, seen our use of oral sex as foreplay, and so on. Bear in mind that whatver pressure there was to engage in sex, to get rid of virginity, came from peers and parents, i.e., almost always from girls and mothers. I like to think that this was by way of subtle encouragement, not ever ridicule or compulsion. The point was that girls, whether sexually active or not, regarded boys' penises, as objects of interest and as icons -- religious icons, even -- and as playthings. Boys themselves were under pressures from their own peers that I never well understood; I saw and understood better the influence of mothers in their sons' sexuality, as I've said. You can imagine that this whole process of "sexualizing" and of developing curiosity and desire, of habituating self to nudity and banishing inhibition was compressed, for Girl G, into just a few days. Once liberated of virginity, Girl G adopted our ethic and our culture quickly enough. I don't know what effect Mrs. M's hidden views had on her, but if like most mainstream girls she earlier made a connection between "love" and sex, she quickly abandoned it and like the rest of us took pleasure in being pleasured. As well as playing with a penis for its own sake. And having fun and taking inspiration from the semen that she made a penis produce. Or showing off her sex parts to arouse boys unilaterally and gratuitously, showing off as much to other girls as to the boy himself.I do not mean to imply, from the fact that I've written nearly exclusively about the positive aspects of early, free and open sex, that there were not the usual teen jealousies and petty spats. Those are part of the human condition, I'm afraid. There was, of course, competition for popular boys, there were indeed fashions of a sort for particular styles of boy and girl: music, sport, intelligence, artiness, physical prowess, hair all had their day. Or hour. Boy B created his own sort of competition in the weeks and months after he came because girls heard about, or had seen, his penis and wanted to see if size mattered, or if it was true that a bigger penis means that erection is less sustainable (the theory relates to blood supply), and so on. One girl, a precocious not-yet-12-year-old who'd come over for a 3-week stay, heard about Boy B and his grand penis and right away went over to him and said in a loud voice "I want to see your penis!" When he didn't respond, she tried to feel it through his jeans. Then she whisked off her top, grabbed his hand, and led him downstairs. We all ran after them to see what was happening. The girl had her shorts and panties off by the time she reached the bottom of the stairs. For her age she had decent hips and more pubic hair than I would have expected, and not shaved or anything. But almost no boobs. Boy B wasn't fast enough for her in undressing, so after he'd got his shoes and jeans off, she pulled down his briefs and -- as she said -- fell in love with his penis then and there. She just kissed and kissed it and stuffed it in her mouth even though it distorted her lips and cheeks. Then she lay down on the floor and challenged him to put it inside her vagina: "make me ready!" she cried. We could see her cute pink insides as he went about her vagina and clitoris with his tongue. But I, for one, got bored at their child's play and went about looking for a penis for myself. Eventually I phoned around until I found a boy I liked and I told him the story and he rushed over with his penis and we had a delightful time. He got there after the kid-couple had decoupled; it's always nice and always arousing to see a girl relaxing, her vagina wet and sticky after a bout of sex and her boy nearby, tired out. She was still playing with Boy B's big penis, kissing it lightly, trying to make sure that afternoon was an event to remember. That 11-year-old had an interesting background. I think her parents were old-style CoG or The Family. She had not only been shown the mechanics of sex early -- her parents, or her father anyway, had sex in front of her, and at one point his sometime partner showed her how semen would spurt from her father's penis if it was stroked -- but they'd taken regular vacations in some sort of nudist arrangement. A few months before the event I just described, she'd been on one of those vacations and she'd noticed that the penis of a particular young boy, immature the year before, had changed and grown since she'd last seen it. The boy's sister and another girl importuned her to touch and fondle that penis and see how big she could make it. She did it and then the boy got her to lie back on some pretense and he started playing with her vagina and before she knew it his penis was inside her. She was speechless; the sister and friend cheered them on. Hearing the noise, her father went over and caught them in flagrante delicto. But instead of admonishing or punishing her as she sort of expected, he congratulated her for being so grown up and said that because her breasts were so undeveloped he hadn't realized her vagina was ready; that it was too bad she'd missed out all the sex she could have enjoyed for however months it was. He told her that knowledge is power and that the more she knew about the penis the more popular and more powerful she would be. He (I assume it was he) found another, older boy, and had the boy teach her to suck his penis to ejaculation. From then on she became completely uninhibited and very slutty in dress and demeanor. Her father must have liked her style: he started bringing her regularly to Mom's Friend's House and would at least occasionally watch while she accosted boys and gave oral sex. You could see his groin move while he watched her mouth working on a boy's penis. You'd have to read the newspaper articles I posted on The Family to understand that sort of parental consent. Given her dad's attitude and the way she'd entered into sexual activity it's unsurprising that she wasn't very respectful of Mom's Friend's rules, limited and liberal they were. She had a tendency try to disrupt other conversations, relationships even, that were going on rather than looking for an unattached boy or waiting to target that boy on the next day. I never got along with her. It's one thing to put on a demonstration of nice oral sex to get those around you to link up as couples and to arouse them to do likewise. I also felt that she encouraged, with her antics, sexual aggressiveness on the part of boys, something that I feel and have always felt is uncouth and uncalled for. A boy should be proud of his penis, happy with his body, and should enjoy seeing and being seen. But he should never be allowed to take for granted that a girl will do him any favors, or that he is king of the settlement and has an entitlement to "blow jobs at will". Romance is more compatible with passive self-confidence than with aggressive self-aggrandizement. When I was among a minority of girls in a room (or yard) of nude teens, all of us taking the measure of the members of the opposite sex with a view to making love later on, I could see that other girls agreed with me, and ignored the one or two obnoxious guys. Unsurprisingly, our rule that a boy had to be sponsored by, or at least accompanied by, a girl -- a sister, for example -- at nude dance parties kept down the number of unfortunate incidents there.(As I've mentioned earlier, there are whole Web sites devoted to the art of oral sex. Some of the best are on university servers; a semi-commercial one with some sensitive photography, is http://www.oralsextips.com and it includes a lovely photo of a penis still bouncing on a girl's tongue after having given up its semen: http://www.oralsextips.com/gallery/3427x010.htmlMy only objection to the picture is that the girl's eyes are closed: mine never would be, and Mom would have admonished me if they were. Fellatio is as much for the delight of the girl as the boy, and it's only because of male chauvinist idiots that the notions of receiving and swallowing semen as humiliation and bukkake as ultimate humiliation could ever have arisen.) It's another thing to shout out invitations to oral sex disruptively, interrupting an attempt by another girl or boy to set up a liaison and just blatantly offering on-the-spot fellatio. Or doing it in the wrong part of the house and messing up the furniture or the carpet, not cleaning up after yourself, and so on. Also, she spoiled it for some of us by not always demanding that boys perform cunnilingus and bring her to the brink of climax before finishing with their penis or letting them penetrate her. God knows I'm all for the Constitutional right of everyone to the pursuit of happiness, but not when it is malicious or tramples on property rights or vested interests, if you know what I mean. (For what it's worth, I think this girl's case shows how much better it was when introductions to sex were managed by mothers rather than fathers. And this is true for boys as well as girls: normal mothers, however fond they are of their boys penises, do not get aroused by them or let their anxiety or eagerness for the penis to grow and ejaculate semen interfere with their good judgment.) Our sex may have been casual, with a different partner each time from our circle of friends. But this was not promiscuity: there was reason, a religious and philosophical and didactic basis, to our variety of partners. To get back to my story, on that day the boy I was with at the time, and who saw the incident of the slutty girl and Boy B, said he'd never seen anything like it, that he'd wished he'd been cared for like that at age 12 (well, he should have met me then), and that he didn't even know what sex was until he was almost 14 and had started to play with his penis. His mom had heard that masturbation was harmful and his dad thought that it could lead to homosexuality, and so they joined a nude weekend with a number of sexually-open families at the country cottage of one of them. And through that he came to know about our dance parties. (This was a typical means of introduction for people unconnected with the CoG.) Even though he couldn't dance decently he was popular enough and would come just for the music and the sex. Girls would put up with it because he had other things to offer, or we thought he did: his penis for one -- it was one of those that you occasionally see that was thicker at the head than at the base, a lot prettier than when it's the other way around. He also had manners, which a lot of young boys don't. Mom liked him, too, and he didn't seem at all embarrassed when he heard Mom telling his mother on another occasion how nice his penis looked when erect and how lucky he was that he could really put out a forceful stream of semen. I didn't tell her then, or ever, that his semen had been voluminous because I'd spent an hour prior bringing him repeatedly to the verge of ejaculation and then back down to earth, so that when I finally let him come by just licking around the head of his penis it sort of exploded out of him. Of course it fell back down on my hand on his penis, and I couldn't recapture it all. But it was too much to ingest anyway: I got plenty to taste and to swish around in my mouth. His penis is grand, too, in its way: but as I've repeatedly said, the whole point of sexual freedom as a young teen is to learn to put such things into perspective. Having enjoyed some of the grandest penises in the land I can judge sexual adequacy (in its literal sense) and judge serious prospects for long-term relationships with expert knowlege about sex and formal education in things intellectual. Besides, as I've written, I knew and made love to my boyfriend's penis when it was still growing. I seduced him on the houseboat, and came to be introduced to him again years later, just by chance, by a friend who noticed he'd originally lived in Our Town too. Small world, big life. I've written about that before and you can find the story indexed on my Web site.When I took The Blond-Haired Boy to see Mom some time ago I really wanted her to see his penis the way it is today, and I particularly wanted her to see it fiercely erect and glistening with semen. A penis fulfilled, and before it has had a chance to soften, is the most beautiful sight in the world. Mom remembered him from the houseboat and she had to be impressed how he'd grown up. She pointed out something I'd missed, though: in the moments between our finishing our fun and our walking over arm-in-arm to see her, some more semen had seeped out of its tip. Mom pointed to it and smiled, and I kneeled down and sucked it off. How nice! It is only in our kind of honest family community that a daughter and a mom can relate to each other that way, with no barriers at all, no pretense and nothing hidden.I hadn't planned to write this essay because I thought I had said all I have to say. And, after all, our sex was rather stylized and based on our out-of-mainstream beliefs (which I have adequately adumbrated over the past two years). Furthermore, our sex is performed with the same biological assets everybody else has, and aside from describing how pubescent kids react when they are free to disrobe and cavort, I didn't see how it was possible for me to say much that is not already in the public domain. There was, however the recent spate of articles about the Davidito case (which you will find linked and archived on my Web site), and the issue arose in my research for work of kids suddenly faced with culture change by a parental separation or divorce after years of growing up under conventional norms sheltered from (i.e., deprived of access to) sex. The purpose of my essays, which long ago I called a "manifesto", is to dispel the fear and loathing and the assimilation to "pedophilia" that sex between consenting, informed adolescents is so often confronted with. And the false supposition that the viewing from a distance by a child of an erect penis being fondled by a naked female could be corrupting of morals or damaging to psyche. A child may wonder at the sight of a stream of semen, just as s/he may wonder at a Yellowstone geiser, but s/he is scarcely likely to be harmed unless it is directed at her or him.Never mind what you have read elsewhere about the sight and knowledge of explicit sex being dangerous for children. I have based this story on my childhood diaries and this is how it was when I was there. No children were harmed at Mom's Friend's House.Love, Carol (I appreciate the comments readers have given, and, sometimes, accounts of their own family's experience with the CoG. I don't have time to reply, though. I hope you understand. I have a real job as analyst/writer on political and social affairs and these stories are meant only to record a lifestyle that, much as I would like to think I can justify and promote it, has probably had its day. Especially now that the Religious Right have tossed democracy to the winds and seen fit to try to impose their law, even if it means packing the courts and ignoring the general will for laissez-faire in private matters. We considered setting up a foundation to promote family autonomy in matters of childraising but quickly found that if we did that we would become targets for all the crazies in America who want to impose their own look-but-don't-touch mores on everybody. And who fail to distinguish between genuine child abuse by those in positions of power -- in the double sense of loco parentis and government/social service agencies -- and kids just playing with their peers and enjoying their bodies.)----------This essay was originally published in 2005 and is repeated here without change (except for updating or URLs) because of the closing of my former Web site. (c) 2005 by Carol Cobillard (who knows: I may yet become famous like Catherine Millet or Pauline Reage (Dominique Aury).) 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