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Subject: {ASSM} The (Sex) Story of My Life (Jeff Zephyr) Intro - no sex, background only
Date: Thu,  1 Jun 2000 08:10:36 -0400
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First posted story.  I've done the intro and two chapters, and given
time will get more done.  Doing a semi-true life story gives me a lot
of material. All that is needed now is time (and talent, which I hope
I have) to turn it into good stories.



Usual disclaimer:  This story involves sexual subject matter.  If you
aren't old enough to read this, go home!

Copyright by me, 2000.  Please don't distribute in an altered form, or
with any charges for acquisition.



Introduction:

The (Sex) Story of My Life, by Jeff Zephyr (jeffzeph@hotmail.com)
JeffZeph's Life So Far

Intro:  No sex, just a bit of rambling about what this is about, and
why.

A semi-true story ;-)

Thinking back on my life brings back lots of memories, and the
occasional fantasy about "back then".  I'm not dead yet, and some of
you might find my tales interesting.
I don't remember the details on everything perfectly, and some aren't
as interesting as my fantasies about the events, and I'd rather not
tell a boring sex story, so I don't promise that it is all true.  Even
if I did, how could you know for sure?  Most of my story will be my
narrative, unless I get around to trying to write up a conversation
for the events.  I figured I'll start at the beginning and work my way
through my life, but the density of "events" gets pretty high, so I
might miss some.  If so, I'll put in little short stories to cover
these other events.  In any case, I'll try to tell my story in a way
that makes me excited to do it.

Jogging my memory on some of these things is a bit tricky.  Obvious
method #1 is sex, either solo, writing things down afterward, or with
my wife, talking over the events in our lives and trying to remember
to write them down.  Only problem is that getting a hot story going
tends to distract from actually writing the events down.

Next attempt, after starting this story, was a long outline, actually
a couple of lines about each sexual event I could remember. Just
covering enough of the details to help me remember, but no enough to
be distracting.  That didn't always work, but at least I got a better
plan put together.  Next part was trying to get it into order.  I
could remember what happened, but exactly when was harder.  Might not
matter, but I figure that if anyone ever tries to figure out if this
is real or not, consistency might help.  Does that matter?  Is
consistency, reality, or style (and hot sex) more important?  I just
want to have this story make sense to me when I get it done, just in
case there might come a time when I can't remember what my life was
like.

Fortunately, up to age 11 events happened slowly enough that it isn't
hard to get a story to tell.  All I need to do is remember (or perhaps
invent, it is hard to tell which is fantasy and memory from that age)
what happened, and write it down. Right?  Well, still not so easy, and
if I get something hot going, it is "hard" to keep writing.  Then
there are fantasies about things which never happened, other story
ideas.  I was going to do them first, but we decided that this trip
down memory lane was more interesting for us.

Starting young was an issue.  I know that some people just don't get
into sex for real until adults, or nearly so.  My first story attempt
was about when I came home from the Army, and while a hot event, I
realized that I was putting so much back-story elements and flashbacks
into it, to explain the characters, that it would be easier to start
from the beginning.  Other than a few liberties, it might make a nice
case study of the effects of exposure to sex on a boy at a young age.
You'd have to wrap it up with the whole exposure to the 60's, free
love, hippies, bikers, and that whole scene too.  I can't say which
things led to what, and neither can the psychologists I've talked to
about it.  But I can talk about what happened, and maybe some of you
can make some guesses, or at least have fun with it.  I plan on having
fun ;-)

When the topic of "first sex" comes up with new friends, and we get
down to telling the truth, I tend to get shocked responses with my
"age 11, if you mean dick going into pussy".  Now, I know some got
their start even earlier, but most didn't.  But I was a romantic kid,
always liked girls.  I talked about getting married to my girlfriend
when 7 or so.  I liked girls, and had a strong interest in my body,
and naked people.  But for most people I've talked with, they either
don't believe it could happen, or that there were really kids having
sex, in one way or another at that age.

On the other hand, there was support from friends who had experiences
at young ages.  It seemed to be a divide, between those who had some
kind of sex experiences while in early teens or before, and those who
waited until later.  Sure, most of them probably masturbated at early
ages, but actually getting it on with a friend, of the opposite sex?
A same sex partner was more likely, though guys especially didn't like
to admit that.  And except with close friends, I didn't mention that
part of my sex play much either.

Skipping all of the little details of my life which affected my sexual
development leaves out too much I'd like to talk about.  Writing it
down also means that I can have fun sharing it with my mate, and maybe
get her to write down some of her experiences.  Even if it does not,
it seems like a fun way to repay the fun we've had reading a.s.s (and
a.s.s.m).  And even if you find non-sex talk boring, you can 
always skip bits and just enjoy the "good parts".

When I'm going to get to my other stories I don't know.  The outline,
about 4 lines per incident, is over 50k now, and I haven't gotten much
past high school.  I've done outlines for some other tales, not based
on my life, but somehow, this Life Story thing compels me to keep
going on it first.

If you like it, please let me know.  The beginning parts don't have a
lot of sex action, which made it a little easier to write.  Covering
the sex and romance parts is harder; I keep adding details, once I got
the basic facts down.  I'd rather not send out an unfinished story.
But I'd like a bit of feedback, maybe hints to make the story hotter,
without changing the events.

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